I stumbled across this Ted Talk by a young man named Sam Berns, who has a simple, yet profound philosophy on how to have a happy life.
Rule #1 is to focus on what you CAN do, not on what you CAN'T do. Given Covid, I think we all need to hear that one again. And, personally, I've been struggling with a major decision for several months, and, this one line has completely resolved the issue for me. I feel so much lighter now!
He has 2 or 3 more rules, all so simple, yet, so perfect. I'll leave you to discover them.
But, I'll warn you, you may need a tissue for this....